After 2 people mutually like or “Swipe Right” on each other, they will be able to exchange messages and photos via our secure, private, messaging system.Swipe Right: If you like a match.Swipe Left: If you dislike a match.Swipe Up or Tap Down Arrow: To see additional pictures and information about a match.Click on the Shine/Shade button: Toggle between a match's Shine and Shade.Tap Picture: If you would like to zoom in on a picture and see it in full-screen mode (Varies by phone).
At SettleForLove, we know nobody is perfect and we celebrate that! We encourage our users to open up a bit and have fun!Shine: An attractive picture of the user combined with positive traits.Shade: An unattractive picture of the user combined with negative traits.By showing each user’s Shine/Shade it’s easier to connect with someone!Need help? Click on “Suggestions” during registration/editing to see examples. Keep in mind you can always change your pictures and traits any time you choose.
Yes. Facebook helps us speed up the registration process by automatically porting in your name, age, email address, and other details. It also ensures this information is genuine and reliable.
No, absolutely not. We only use Facebook during the registration process to make it easier for you to register.
No, we don’t. While we do our best to monitor our membership, members should use their own judgement when communicating and meeting other members. If you ever have any comments or concerns please contact SettleForLove Support.
Yes, that’s the plan! We are starting in the United States & Canada but have plans to expand to other countries in the coming 1-2 years.
Help us spread the word! A dating site is only as strong as it’s members so the more people you tell, the more possible matches for everyone!
In the app: Settings > Notifications
In the app: Settings > Profile is Visible
In the app: Settings > Delete Account
In the app: Settings > My Profile Icon > Edit Pencil > Click on the pic you want to update
In the app: Settings > My Profile Icon > Edit Pencil > Scroll down to “More pictures” and click on a “+ sign”Note: You are allowed a total of 6 photos (Shine, Shade, + 4 Additional)
In the app: Settings > My Profile Icon > Edit Pencil > Scroll to the photo you want to delete > Tap it > Delete Photo
In the app: Settings > My Profile Icon > Edit Pencil > Click on the text you want to update
We pull your age from Facebook so, unfortunately, it's not possible to change it without changing it on your Facebook profile.
We pull your name from Facebook so, unfortunately, it's not possible to change it without changing it on your Facebook profile.
Unfortunately, it is not possible to recover a match you have deleted.
By default, your location is automatically set by your phone’s GPS. If you prefer, you can manually type in your postal code:In the app: Settings > Location Preferences: Turn off Set Automatically > Postal Code
1. Try broadening your search settings. In the app: Settings > Distance: Expand to wider range In the app: Settings > Age: Expand to wider range
2. Ensure your photos are high quality. You have a higher likelihood of being matched on SFL if you have high quality photos.
3. Ensure your profile information is filled out. You have a higher likelihood of being matched on SFL with a high quality profile.
4. Try back in another week. SettleForLove is expanding rapidly around the country. It may take time to effectively launch in your area.
1. Report the User so SFL Support can investigate.
2. Block the User so they never bother you again.
In the message chain: Click 3 Dots > BlockorIn their profile: Scroll Up to Text Section > Click 3 Dots > Block
Yes. Once you block someone they can’t see you and you can’t see them.
In the message chain: Click 3 Dots > Report AbuseorIn their profile: Scroll Up to Text Section > Click 3 Dots > Report Abuse
1. Uninstall the app
2. Restart your phone
3. Download the latest version of the app from the Apple or Android store
4. Launch the app
5. Contact SettleForLove Support if you are still experiencing issues
Either approach will work:1. Contact Us2. In the app: Settings > Contact & FAQ > Contact Us
We do our best to handle all support tickets within 48 hours.
For other questions please write us at [email protected]